Open, Closed and Restricted Meetings
|Kind||Type||Who Can Attend?|
|Al-Anon||Closed||Anyone bothered by someone else’s drinking.|
|Alateen||Closed||Teens and younger children affected by someone else’s drinking. No adults except Area-certified Alateen Sponsors.|
|Al-Anon and Alateen||Restricted||Those with special clearance and/or permission by the facility in which the meeting is held.|
Al-Anon meetings are for anyone whose life has been affected by someone else’s drinking. If someone’s alcoholism is bothering you, please come to any ‘unrestricted’ meeting, both ‘open’ and ‘closed’.
‘Open’ Al-Anon meetings are open to everyone, including those only seeking information about Al-Anon, such as professionals (counselors, doctors, etc.), media, students, or the curious, but don’t, themselves, have anyone in their family or friends whose alcoholism is bothering them. At ‘open’ meetings, Al-Anon members welcome visitors seeking information about Al-Anon Family Groups.
‘Closed’ Al-Anon meetings are meant only for those whose lives are bothered by someone else’s drinking. Visitors and newcomers that qualify in this manner are welcome to attend ‘closed’ Al-Anon meetings. We ask that those seeking only information not attend.
‘Restricted’ meetings are held on sites that require special clearance and/or permission. No one can attend these meetings without being cleared by the facility in which the meeting is held. The purpose of restricted meetings is to carry the Al-Anon/Alateen message to those who are confined in crisis/abuse shelters, juvenile detention centers, group homes, county jails, state and federal prisons, and other similar facilities as defined by the World Service Office Guideline G-9.
Alateen meetings are for teens and younger children whose lives have been affected by someone else’s drinking, often a parent, guardian, sibling, relative or friend. All Alateen meetings are ‘closed’. That is, open only to teens and some younger children and their Area-certified Group Sponsor(s). For your teen’s protection, Alateen abides by the NCWSA Requirement for Alateen Member Safety.
Al-Anon meetings are for anyone whose life has been affected by someone else’s drinking. If someone’s alcoholism is bothering you, please come to any “open” or “closed” meeting. “Closed” simply means it is closed to the curious, professionals (counselors, doctors, etc.) or students seeking information about Al-Anon, but don’t, themselves, have anyone in their family or friends whose alcoholism is bothering them. At Open meetings, Al-Anon members welcome visitors seeking information about Al-Anon such as professionals, students and others who wish to learn about Al-Anon Family Groups.
Alateen meetings are for teens, usually age 12-21, whose life has been affected by someone else’s drinking (usually their parents, guardians, siblings or friends) and are always closed, that is, open only to teens – no adults (except the sponsor) allowed. For your teen’s protection, Alateen abides by the NCWSA Requirement for Alateen Member Safety.
Where Meetings are Held
Al-Anon groups hold meetings in churches, schools, hospitals, treatment centers, clubs, and other civic buildings, any place where the groups can afford the rent. Groups pay their own way, and they are not affiliated with the owner or operator of the building at which they meet.
Who is Invited to Attend a Meeting
Everyone who believes that someone else’s drinking bothers them are encouraged to attend any Al-Anon meeting in this list. It is not necessary to believe that the person who drinks is an alcoholic, only that when he or she drinks, we react in a way that appears inappropriate. If someone else’s drinking bothers you, Al-Anon is there to help. Anyone who qualifies in this manner may attend any Al-Anon meeting.
Alateen is an Al-Anon program for children in the teen years. Alateen has one or more adult sponsors who assist the teens. Because the teens need a place that is confidential, adults who are not sponsors do not attend an Alateen meeting unless the group gives explicit permission for that person to attend. For these purposes, all Alateen meetings are labeled “closed”. Any teen who qualifies in this manner may attend any Al-Anon meeting. Some Alateen meetings list ages lower than the teen years, allowing younger children to attend their meeting also.
Many professionals in the medical, treatment, legal and judicial systems, students and others wish to learn about how Al-Anon may help their clients. Many Al-Anon meetings are open to the public and anyone who wishes to learn about Al-Anon or Alateen may attend any “open” Al-Anon meeting.
Some Al-Anon meetings are also “closed”. If you are a professional, student or otherwise have an interest in finding out about Al-Anon and/or Alateen, please identify yourself to the meeting prior to its start and ask if you may attend.
What to expect When I Call
When calling a phone number listed in the NCWSA directory, there are several ways that the phone is answered. In some cities or towns, an Al-Anon member or an answering service paid for by the groups personally answers the phone. For other cities and towns, the caller is greeted with a message from a voice mail system. Regardless of the manner of answering the phone, the members welcome you to listen for ways to find your first meeting.
Your anonymity will be respected when you call. You may not be asked for your own name, phone number or address if speaking to an Al-Anon volunteer. But, if your call goes to a message service or voice mail system, you might be asked to leave your name, a phone number and sometimes your address. This allows someone to return your call to help you find that first meeting or to mail a schedule of meetings to you. Al-Anon’s volunteers do not mention alcoholism, Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon or Alateen on the outside of mailing envelopes or in phone messages left for you.
Types of Meetings
Al-Anon meetings are open to anyone whose life has been affected by someone else’s drinking. Alateen meetings are open to children in the teen years, but they may also be available for children as young as five. Generally, when an Alateen member reaches the age of 20, the teen member is encouraged to attend Al-Anon meetings. An adult may attend an Alateen meeting with the permission of the conscience of the Alateen group. Adults may not repeatedly attend Alateen meetings unless they have met the NCWSA Requirements For Alateen Member Safety.
Some groups also identify themselves with a focus. You will find groups focused for newcomers; other groups focus on a format, such as study groups for steps, traditions, concepts; others identify themselves with the focus on individuals, such as men, women, adult children, gay. Regardless of the format and focus, you are invited to attend a meeting, where you will learn more about how Al-Anon and/or Alateen might help you recover from the effects of the disease of alcoholism.
How Meetings Obtain their Funds
Groups are dependent on the voluntary contributions of its members. Members, potential members, visitors, professionals and other non-members are invited to attend meetings without regard to economic circumstances and are asked not to contribute unless they intend on becoming members. While members do contribute to the group’s expenses, even for them, contributions are voluntary.
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The listing of groups on this website does not constitute or imply approval or endorsement of any group’s approach to or practice of the traditional Al-Anon/Alateen program.